Breaking the Loop: The Science of Awakening

There are many people walking through life who feel tired, stuck, unlucky, or disconnected — yet they don’t believe they have any real power to change things. They may think life simply happens to them. They may believe that circumstances, other people, money, luck, or fate decide everything.

This does not make them weak or wrong. It makes them human.

Before awakening, most of us live this way. We react instead of choose. We survive instead of create. And we often don’t realise that energy — our thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and intentions — is constantly interacting with us, shaping our experiences quietly in the background.

This blog is an invitation. Not to force belief, but to deeply explore what might be possible if personal power is real — and what happens when someone is not yet aware of it.

If you are reading this, chances are you’ve felt it: that nagging feeling that life is supposed to be more. Maybe you’ve experienced unexplained struggles, recurring patterns in your relationships or finances, or a general sense that you’re stuck, paddling furiously against a current you can’t see.

Perhaps you dismiss ideas like "manifestation" or "energy" as too airy-fairy or wishful thinking. You might believe in hard work, logic, and visible action—and you’d be right, those things matter. But what if I told you that there is an unseen force, an invisible current, that dictates the effectiveness of your hard work?

This post is for you, the logical thinker, the busy parent, the sceptic, and the soul who is just starting to wonder if there’s a deeper mechanism at play. We are going to dive deep into how energy interacts with you when you are unaware, why your past keeps repeating itself, and how you can finally wake up to the greatest power you possess: the ability to consciously manifest your own life.

Everything is Energy, Even If You Can’t See It

Let’s start with a foundational truth that is backed by physics, not just spirituality: everything is energy.

You are a walking, breathing, energetic field. Your thoughts are electric. Your emotions are magnetic. Science tells us that matter is not solid; it is made up of vibrating atoms and subatomic particles. When we talk about "energy," we are simply talking about vibration and frequency.

Think of it like a radio. Every station exists at the same time, but your radio can only play the station that its dial is tuned to.

• When you are unaware of your power: You are listening to the default station—the one tuned in by childhood wounds, cultural conditioning, past heartbreaks, and daily stress. This "station" broadcasts a frequency of limitation, fear, and struggle.

• The Universe doesn’t judge the music; it just matches the frequency. When your inner frequency is constantly humming fear (e.g., “I’ll never have enough money” or “I always end up with the wrong people”), the Universe responds by sending you situations that perfectly match that fear.

The energy interaction with an unaware person is simple: Whatever you vibrate, you attract. It’s not a punishment; it’s a perfectly calibrated feedback loop. You are manifesting 24/7, but you are manifesting by default, based on the programming you inherited, rather than by design.

The Unaware State – The Loop of Default Manifestation

When a person is unaware of their creative power, they are essentially living life in a state of energetic reaction rather than conscious creation.

The Inertia of the Past

Human energy tends toward inertia. If you have been programmed for thirty years to believe that success is hard, your energy field will automatically default to that "hard-work" frequency.

When something bad happens (a setback, a betrayal, a financial loss), the unaware person says, “See? Life always happens to me. I’m cursed/unlucky/doomed.” They use the negative event as proof that their negative frequency is correct, which only strengthens that frequency. This creates a powerful, self-fulfilling loop.

The most common invisible energetic blocks are:

1. People-Pleasing and Co-dependency: You are constantly sending out the energy: "My well-being depends on how others feel about me." This frequency attracts situations where you must sacrifice yourself, leading to burnout and resentment.

2. The Need to Shrink or Dim Your Light: You send the frequency: "It is not safe for me to be fully visible or powerful." This attracts environments where you are overlooked, undervalued, or where your true talents are ignored. You literally manifest small opportunities to match your small self-concept.

3. The Victim Mentality (Unconscious Self-Blame): When you say, "I am powerless over what happens to me," you surrender your creative energy to external circumstances. The Universe, respecting your declaration of powerlessness, consistently sends you circumstances that require you to feel powerless.

The irony here is profound: The energy you send out to protect yourself (like shrinking or people-pleasing) is the very energy that creates the lack and struggle you are trying to avoid.

The Spiritual Toll of Unawareness

From a spiritual perspective, living in this loop is not what your soul signed up for. Your soul entered this life to express joy, creativity, and unique wisdom. When you live unaware, you are living a shadow version of your true self, consistently violating your Sovereignty—your right to be the sole authority of your inner world.

The deep-seated dissatisfaction, the emotional fatigue, and the chronic feeling of being "stuck" are simply your soul whispering (or sometimes screaming) that your current frequency is misaligned with your divine blueprint.

The Moment of Awakening – Flipping the Switch

So, how do you stop manifesting by default and start manifesting by design?

The change begins not with an action, but with awareness—the willingness to question everything you currently believe about struggle.

Step 1: Taking Radical Responsibility

The first and most challenging step is to take radical responsibility for your energy. This does not mean you are to blame for everything that happens to you. It means recognizing that you are the response-ability—the ability to respond consciously to everything that happens.

Instead of saying, "Why did this happen to me?" you start asking, "What is the frequency I was vibrating that attracted this situation, and what am I going to change now?"

Step 2: Reclaiming Sovereignty

This is the key to unlocking your power. Sovereignty means declaring that no external person, situation, or memory has permission to control your inner state.

• The Contract to Others: When you people-please, you make a silent contract that says, "Your opinion is more important than my peace."

• The Sovereign Declaration: You declare, "My peace is non-negotiable. I honour my own feelings and needs first."

This is why rituals like "Tearing the Contract" are so vital. They are physical, conscious acts that tell your unconscious mind and the Universe: "The old agreement is broken. My energy is mine. I am now in charge."

Conscious Manifestation – Tuning the New Frequency

Once you clear the old static, you can intentionally tune your energetic radio to the frequency you desire. This is conscious manifestation, and it requires three components: Clarity, Emotion, and Action.

1. Clarity (The Blueprint)

You must know exactly what you are creating. If you send the signal, "I want to be happy," the Universe sends back general, fleeting moments of happiness. If you send the signal, "I am a successful entrepreneur earning X amount per month by sharing my spiritual gifts," the Universe has a clear blueprint to work with.

• Action for the Sceptic: If you are a sceptic, think of this as simply creating a laser-focused goal—a practice you already value in business or fitness. Energy responds to focus.

  
  

2. Emotion (The Fuel)

This is where many people get stuck. They visualize success but feel the anxiety of failure. Remember: Emotion is the magnet.

To consciously manifest, you must feel the feeling of the desired outcome now. If you want peace, find ways to feel peace today. If you want abundance, find ways to feel grateful for the abundance you already possess today.

• The Worthiness Connection: You must feel worthy of the manifestation. If you clear the "struggle contract" but still feel unworthy, the Universe will stall your manifestation to match the deeper vibration of unworthiness. The work on worthiness is foundational.

  
  

3. Aligned Action (The Bridge)

Conscious manifestation is not about sitting on the sofa and waiting. It’s about taking action that is aligned with your new high-frequency vibration.

When you are vibrating the energy of Confidence (Sovereignty), you will be intuitively guided to take steps that confident people take. The right opportunities, people, and resources simply appear because they match your elevated state.

• The Unaware Loop: Action comes from a place of fear ("I must do this or I’ll fail").

• The Conscious Loop: Action comes from a place of joy and guidance ("I feel inspired to do this, and I know it will succeed").

Bridging the Gap—From Scepticism to Belief

You do not need to believe in spirituality to understand this.

Psychology, neuroscience, and biology all show:

• Thoughts affect behaviour

• Emotions affect decision-making

• Beliefs affect perception

• Stress affects health

  
  

Spiritual language simply describes this from the inside.

Energy is awareness in motion.

If you are still wondering if this is just psychological trickery, that’s okay. The truth is, the spiritual mechanism and the psychological mechanism often intersect perfectly.

Conscious Manifestation is a Spiritual Self-Fulfilling Prophecy.

• When you raise your vibration through inner work, what are you doing psychologically? You are resetting your Reticular Activating System (RAS)—the filter in your brain that determines what you notice.

• If your old programming was "People are dangerous," your RAS filtered the world for danger.

• When you establish Worthiness and Sovereignty, you change the program to "I am safe and supported." Your RAS instantly starts filtering the world for supportive people and opportunities you previously overlooked.

You aren't magically creating things out of thin air; you are attuning yourself to the reality that already exists but was previously invisible to your old, low frequency.

The shift from non-believer to conscious creator is simply the moment you realize that your inner world is the cause, and your outer world is the effect.

What Happens When Someone Starts to Awaken

The first signs are subtle:

• You notice patterns

• You question old reactions

• You feel uncomfortable in situations that once felt normal

• You crave meaning over distraction

This stage can feel confusing. Old beliefs fall away before new ones fully form.

This is not failure. It is transition.

The Final Call to Your Soul

My friend, if you have read this far, your soul is ready for this truth.

The deep spiritual realization we arrive at is this: You are not a simple accident of the Universe; you are a divine fragment of the creative source itself. Your consciousness is the canvas, and your thoughts and feelings are the brushstrokes.

The greatest work of your lifetime is not to chase external happiness, but to strip away everything that is not you—all the contracts, the fear, and the unworthiness—until only your brilliant, pure light remains.

You are meant to experience life in its absolute fullness, guided by an intuition that never fails, supported by a community that understands your sacred journey. This is why we gather at The 9th Ray, and this is the true invitation of the Angelic Kingdom: To stop being the victim of life and start being the architect of your destiny.

Your future is waiting for you to reclaim your power. Don't wait another day to start planning the life you were always meant to live.

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